You should make your college decision (not other people)

Published April 11th, 2014

For most performing and visual arts colleges, the big decision day is May 1st. That means by then you should have a solid idea of where you’ll be going in the fall, and that can be a lot of pressure. Making your final college decision is a big deal (you definitely know that already), which is why you’ve taken your application process seriously. Now everyone, from your parents to your teachers to your next-door neighbors, has an opinion about your ultimate college decision. How do you sort it all out to determine what’s best for you?

It’s easy to get caught up in other people’s opinions about what should be important when choosing a college. But remember--they’re only opinions. Making a final college decision is a personal choice that affects you more than anyone else. While it’s great to consider what people think, especially people you respect and admire, what’s important to them might not necessarily be important to you.

Basically, your college decision shouldn’t be determined by other people’s opinions of…

Prestige

It might be be cool to get all your family and friends gear from that prestigious arts program, it’s way more important that you find a place where you’ll be happy sporting the swag. Don’t let other people pressure you to choose a college because it’s more impressive to them. You already know you’re awesome at your craft; you don’t need to prove it to anyone else.

Money

College is expensive. There’s no other way to put it. And the price of private arts colleges and programs especially can give some people sticker shock. But if you’re accepted into a school with a high tuition cost, don’t let anyone discourage you from pursuing financial aid packages and scholarships if you think you’d be happy there. The posted price is rarely the price you’ll pay.

Location

Location is definitely a factor you should consider when making your final college decision, but not necessarily other people’s opinions on it. Naturally, friends and family might want you to stay close enough to visit, especially if your dream school is on the other side of the country. But ultimately, you’re the one who needs to feel comfortable with the distance.

It may seem simple, but it’s easy to forget your college decision should be up to you. Everyone will have opinions, especially as decision day approaches. But try to focus on what’s important to you and what makes you happy, and come May 1st, you will be.

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